Showing posts with label married life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label married life. Show all posts

April 30, 2014

GOODBYE, APRIL!

last night, i was scrolling through my instagram feed and told travis that i love instagram because it's like a little journal of my life. those little squares reflect life's little in-betweens, the things i usually wouldn't slow down to notice but have now become essential to my every day. this month has been a blur, and i can hardly believe may is just around the corner! while things have been insanely busy as the semester winds down, i'm happy to announce that the end is in sight, and summer is almost here. praise the Lamb. 


our april has looked a lot like adding some finishing touches to our home, taking motorcycle rides together (LOVE!)...


...getting back into the habit of establishing a regular quiet time in my day (it's always the first thing to go, and i want to make it a habit in my life)...


...a quick visit home, including some FABULOUS photoshoots and a celebration of my dad's life on the tenth anniversary of his passing...


...our family visiting for a few days over their spring break and a trip to disneyland together (WOOHOO!)...



...and more learning about each other, making the most of our time together when we have it, my first Pedro's Taco experience (THE BOMB), a baby shower, dreaming about where we're headed in the next year or so, and evaluating how and where we're investing our time and love into. i feel like we're in a constant season of growth and refining, and there are days where i'd really like to be done with all of that. but, God never promised us a comfortable routine and security. He has only promised that He's already ahead of us and that He holds our life in His loving and faithful hands. and that's all we need. 

i hope you all had a wonderful month - cheers to may! 


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January 28, 2014

instalife: january thoughts


there always comes a point where things just can't get much worse. that's how the end of 2013 felt. like the bottom, the end of the rope. we didn't know how much more we could handle, and we had no idea when things would start to turn around. and when life feels lowest, there's nothing left to do but surrender. as hard as you might try to keep control, no matter how many lists you write, how well you organize your time, or how hard you try to keep that smile on your face, eventually it's clearly time to let go. and miraculously, without fail, God steps in, and He starts moving. 

january has looked like a lot of praying, praising, brainstorming, and occasionally butting heads. we've spent several evenings around our giant chalkboard writing down everything in our hearts, all of our worries, all of our dreams. and after we'd identified those dreams, it was time to start taking baby steps toward those goals. 

i'm excited about my business, excited about Travis' future as he pursues his career, excited to finish my credential, excited about the changes we know are coming. there are still deep desires that ache within us - the desire for community, for rich and deep friendships, the desire to eventually move and live in a place we love. we're taking baby steps toward those, too. right now, we're in the here & now. everyone  who knows me knows that i'm a planner; i'm always counting down to the next big thing. but i'm learning how to live today, because i'm not exactly sure what next week, next month, next year will look like. and i'm learning to be ok with that, to find joy in it. 

it's been the little things this month, too. renewing my library card and checking out stacks of books. a red-eye drive up the i-5 to snuggle with our new niece and spend time at home. homemade and husband-made sweet treats. a date night or two. the longer evenings. a love note here and there. dinner with new friends. an evening of cooking & baking family recipes. a quiet morning with a new book. i'm learning to savor life. drink in the fresh air, feel the breeze as it drifts through our home, pause and admire the sunset. every day is showered with gifts. drink it all in today, friends. 






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January 23, 2014

our wedding story: part five // a bride & her groom



the best thing about this photo (besides how dreamy it is), is that it was taken literally seconds after the ceremony and we didn't even know it was happening - it was just a moment of hugging and celebrating and embracing, and it all felt as magical as it looks. and that's how the rest of the evening felt. 

grab a cup of coffee and kick back, because there are lots of photos in this post, but they're some of my favorite, mostly for the moments they capture: the adoration and love on my groom's face (for which I will always be grateful), the laughter and joy between our best friends, the pure delight these two newlyweds found, and still find, in each other. i'll let Jillian Zamora's gorgeous work do all the story-telling today. 

































tomorrow is the GRAND FINALE (i promise!) and we'll end this all dancing & partying the night away...xo. 


January 17, 2014

our wedding story: part three // venue and DIY details




i know what you guys are thinking - part 3?! how many are there? but i just can't help myself, k? i just love all of the beautiful images we received from our wedding day, and i at least want to document it all for my sake. i'm just glad you're here too!

there were so many little nuances and details that went into making everything crafted specifically for us. when we started wedding planning we knew two things: we were on an extremely low budget, and we wanted our wedding to reflect us, honor God, and serve our community (is that 4 things?). on the day of, many of our friends came up to us and said, "this is just so you guys!" which is exactly what we were shooting for. 

i'm forever grateful for the help of so many girlfriends, and my handsome groom and some of his friends, and our endlessly supportive family. without all of them, we could not have pulled this off. my mom and best friend/MOH came into town a few days before the wedding, and it was a DIY workshop up in this house! they both saved my butt and brought peace and sanity to everything i was doing. 

on the day of, i had no idea exactly what the final result would be, but when i saw the reception area for the first time, i gasped, and then smiled uncontrollably. it was exactly what i had imagined, even better actually. the whole day i kept mentally pinching myself - did we really pull it off?! and with a lot of love and a ton of grace, we did. 



the locket on my bouquet was given to me by my grandmother when we were in germany last year. it was originally gifted to her by my dad and his sister when they were kids, after my grandmother had once had a long, tough day. it was almost an apology gift of sorts, a "please be happy again so we can enjoy our vacation." anyway, i wanted to include it as a tangible reminder of my dad who, though he was in all of our hearts that day, was deeply missed. 





for the longest time, i'd always wanted sparklers at my wedding. but 90+ degree weather and a hot california summer in a park just don't work with fire. so instead, my mom slaved away and made these ribbon wands (what else would you call them...?) - just a dowel, hot glue, and a few pieces of ribbon. i still have them all over the house, and am so glad they worked perfectly for the send-off! 





each table was numbered and then named after a place we've visited together. travis and i have been blessed with many opportunities to travel, and though Temecula is obviously not the most exciting destination on the list, it was on the road to Temecula where travis asked me to be his girlfriend. munich, buenos aires, salzburg, and china were just a few other places on the list...





these coasters! i can't believe we actually made that happen. my darling husband spent a hot summer morning slicing branches we brought down from my brother's back yard in northern california, and then i individually stamped every letter on them to create place settings for our guests. it's been so fun visiting our friends' homes and seeing these everywhere! they worked as a coaster, a place setting, and a favor - win-win-win! 




way before we even started planning, i knew that i did NOT want to spend hundreds of dollars on a cake. it's just absolutely ridiculous. plus, i don't like the look of traditional wedding cakes. too symmetrical and perfect for me! to match our outdoor wedding, i wanted a simple cake with a rustic look. our family friend made these delicious cakes from scratch and i just adore the way they turned out - plus, they were delicious (at least that's what i hear... ;])! 




mmm those stringed lights. travis and i had been talking about having lights like these at our wedding since we first knew we wanted to marry each other. many thanks to the strong, tall men who strung all of these up and truly made the space magical! 

have the happiest weekend, friends! 

bridal shoes: Steve Madden
dress: W1 at Jinny's Bridal
programs and wedding stationary: Zest & Lime
floral design: Elementals
wedding cake: homemade
day-of styling/wedding coordinator: Erin Marrero at Simply Sweet Weddings & Events (she's the best. hire her, NOW!)
DJ: DJ Rev